Everyone wants to have a happily ever after. Once you found the girl of your dreams you probably didn’t imagine it would go any other way other than the “growing old together” way.
However, it is an unfortunate fact of love and life that not all relationships make it to this promised land. Whether it is a major scandal like infidelity or something as simple yet devastating as one of you falling out of love, it is always nice to have a heads up.
With the falling out of love part, there are actually a lot of warning signs along the way. Here are some signs she doesn’t like you anymore that might come in handy as you run a diagnostic check to see whether or not your relationship will last.
8 signs your girlfriend doesn’t love you anymore
Sorry honey, I’m busy that day…
This is one of the earliest signs she doesn’t care about you as much as she used to. A key pillar of a successful relationship is spending quality time together. If this doesn’t seem to be a priority for her anymore then there is a good chance that she is no longer as invested in you as she used to be.
That said, be sure to take into consideration factors like schedule changes and increased responsibilities in her life. Sometimes she really can’t make it because of a work thing.
She’s doesn’t get mad anymore
When she doesn’t seem to get mad or visibly disappointed in your transgressions anymore then you, my friend, are in trouble. It might seem like a crazy idea but a woman who cares gets mad. This is because they have expectations and they are truly bothered if you do not live up to them.
On the other hand, if you have been hearing a lot of “it’s ok” or “no worries” when you mess up then your relationship is in the ICU.
But when you fight, she gets down and dirty
Another important sign a girl doesn’t like you is when she unapologetically attacks your weaknesses, especially during a fight. Disagreements in a relationship are a necessary component as long as both of you fight fair. However, when she starts to hit below the belt then she probably has lost all care and love that she had for you.
She keeps you a secret
All of a sudden, you stop getting invited to family barbeques and cocktails with her friends. She seems hesitant when it comes to letting you spend any time with people she considers close. This insistence in keeping you a secret might be a key pointer to her lack of interest in you or having a long term relationship.
The texts and calls don’t flow as abundantly anymore
Remember when you guys first started out and blew each other’s phones up with constant texts and phone calls? Those were the good times, huh?
As the relationship progresses, the frequency of these chats reduces gradually. But there should always enthusiasm on both sides.
If a girl does not like you, she will most likely leave your messages unanswered and calls unreturned. Unless she has a really good reason for the radio silence, expect the worst.
Your physical intimacy takes a blow
Another of the major signs she’s not into you anymore is when she starts to reject your physical advances. It could be that she doesn’t let you hold her hand anymore when you are walking out in public. Or maybe she doesn’t want to get sexually intimate with you all of a sudden despite showing interest initially. Either way, if the physical intimacy is suddenly withdrawn without explanation then things aren’t looking good for you.
There isn’t much enthusiasm about future plans together
A woman who truly loves you welcomes the idea of a future together. She contributes enthusiastically to conversations on you two settling down. She seems excited at the idea of starting a family together. If this is not the case then there is a good chance that she is not interested in that with you.
Despite this being true for most, there are some women who just do not have marriage and kids as immediate priorities. So get to hear her side of the story on this one before you decide she doesn’t love you and you should leave. Maybe this is the opportunity for you to finally enjoy life after a break up.
She actually tells you
The clearest of all signs she’s not interested anymore is verbal affirmation of the same. Some women will save you the sleuthing and Sherlock Holmes-ing and just tell you that they do not like you anymore.
When she does, please do not fight it. For most people, breaking such news means thinking long and hard about all the factors. If she comes out and says it to your face, it means that she is at a point where she believes that the relationship is going nowhere. So cut your losses and move on. You will find someone else, and that is a promise.